I really enjoy writing thank you notes. Firstly, there are so many just lovely cards. Simple “Gracias” or artistic scenery shots, puppies and kittens, black and white photos, there is an endless selection of cards. Most importantly, there is an opportunity to express emotion. You know I love me some emotion.
What I don’t understand is why other people - there’s that phrase again! - don’t enjoy them.
At what other time is it appropriate to use all of those fun, positive words like “thoughtfulness,” “generosity,” and “kindness?” When can you be effusive and positive and MEAN IT other than a well-thought out thank you card?
If I were to go up to the people in my life, hug them strongly, and declare, “You are so special to me because you make me laugh and understand me when I don’t even understand myself. Thank you for being such an empathetic person!!” I think people would have me committed. I mean, it would be nice to get a spontaneous hug - and maybe a kiss on the cheek, woohoo! - but, it’s just not that easy to show physical affection without others wondering if you’re celebrating 4:20 a little early.
ENTER THE THANK YOU NOTE.
Set yourself apart from the pack - send a well-written, beautifully appropriate thank you note. Shove your modern, cynical self to the side and be happy, thankful and positive for the length of one card.
Raise your hand if you’re surprised that I’m encouraging positivity?
